How to Transition from Daycare to Preschool
Making the transition from daycare to preschool can be a challenge for both child and parent. Here are some tips for a smooth and successful transition.
Making the transition from daycare to preschool will inevitably be a challenge for both the child and parent. But with proper preparation, it won’t be all tears and trials. By setting a plan in motion well before your child’s first day, preschool can be an exciting time as opposed to a fearful one.
We've rounded up these tips on how to transition from daycare to preschool as a resource for parents. To learn more about All Saints', check out our Phoenix preschool.
Before Preschool Begins
You know your child best, so choose whatever preparation tips are age-appropriate from the following list. The earlier you begin to give them responsibilities, the more confident and independent they'll feel without mom and dad.
- Read: You're likely already doing this, but there’s no harm in increasing the frequency of your daily reading. Choosing books that introduce the idea of school can help lessen your child’s fear and normalize the process.
- Play pretend: Turn preschool prep into a game. Take on the role of the teacher and ask that they hang up their backpack or sit down for crafts.
- Emphasize manners: Develop their social skills by teaching your child how to ask for what they need. Whether they're joining a game between other kids or asking the teacher a question, it’s important children understand how to get someone's attention. Role play with puppets or older siblings.
- Establish a schedule: Don't wait until school starts to establish a daily routine. Practice early by eating meals at a set time and enforcing bed time so that it won't feel like a major change when preschool begins.
- Visit: Schedule a tour of the school and arrange a time to meet the teacher. It's okay to do this more than once - your apprehension about the transition is just as valid as your kid's. Hang photos of the school around the house to keep it fresh in their mind.
- Meet the parents: Introduce yourself to other families so that you don't feel so alone on the first day. As everyone will be facing their own unique challenges, it's advantageous to use each other a support network. At the very least, your child will have new friends for playdates.
After Preschool Begins
New challenges will arise once the child has started school. By anticipating and working around them, everyone will have an easier time—teachers, children, and parents.
- Limit stimulation: While not applicable to every child, it's typical for preschoolers to feel emotionally overwhelmed which can manifest as behavioral regression. Let them decompress in a quiet home environment with limited media. Yes, that means iPads off.
- Be involved: Spend time in the classroom and with the teacher. Ask questions. Don't be afraid to use their knowledge and expertise in areas where you're struggling. They've been through everything imaginable and know the best tricks and tips for transitioning the both of you.
- Don't disappear: It may be tempting to sneak away if your child is crying, but be firm in saying your goodbyes. Leaving will create feelings of distrust and can often exacerbate your child’s anxiety.
- Utilize technology: Although it’s likely your child's preschool will already have a great system of communication in place, don't hesitate to suggest an interactive app. Taking advantage of a mobile or desktop service that tracks daily activities and provides real-time updates can prove invaluable during this period of adjustment.
Like most major milestones in your child's life, heading off to preschool can be as stressful as it is exciting. By planning ahead and staying consistent with your communication and routines, your household's new normal will take hold more easily than you think.